I'm going on my first cruise and I pre paid gratuities but now I'm hearing shouldn't do that and tip in cash, advice?

Prepaid gratuities on a cruise are fine — and often the smarter move for first-timers. At $16–$25/person/day on mainstream lines, they cover your entire service team automatically. The 'tip in cash instead' advice sounds good but usually leaves most of the crew unpaid.

I’m going on my first cruise and I pre paid gratuities but now I’m hearing shouldn’t do that and tip in cash, advice Photo: MSC Cruises

You've already done the right thing — and whoever told you otherwise was probably repeating half-understood cruise forum wisdom. Here's the full picture so you can board with confidence.

Prepaid Gratuities: What You Actually Paid For

On mainstream cruise lines, the daily gratuity rate runs $16–$25 per person per day in 2025–2026, with most major lines sitting around $18/day for standard cabins. Suite guests typically pay $3–$5/day more. That money gets pooled and distributed across a large crew — your cabin steward, dining room servers, assistant servers, buffet staff, and behind-the-scenes galley workers who never interact with you directly.

Tier Daily Rate (per person) Who It Covers
Budget mainstream (MSC, Carnival base) $16–$18 Cabin, dining, buffet crew
Mid-range mainstream (Royal Caribbean, Norwegian, Princess) $18–$20 Same pool + additional service staff
Premium/Suite surcharge +$3–$5 on top Expanded suite butler/concierge team
Luxury lines (Virgin, Oceania, Regent, Silversea, etc.) Included in fare Entire ship crew

For a 7-night cruise, two people are looking at roughly $252–$350 total in prepaid gratuities at standard rates. You've already handled that. Done.

I’m going on my first cruise and I pre paid gratuities but now I’m hearing shouldn’t do that and tip in cash, advice Photo: Carnival Cruise Line

Why the 'Tip Cash Instead' Advice Is Mostly Wrong

The logic goes: "Give cash directly to the people who served you so they keep all of it." It sounds fair. Here's what that advice gets wrong:

First, if you remove your prepaid gratuities (which most lines allow you to do at guest services onboard), the crew members you tip individually are often required to turn that cash into the pool anyway. Some lines have policies enforcing this. Your "direct" tip may not be as direct as you think.

Second, even if cash does stay with the individual, you're only tipping the two or three crew members you see. The laundry staff washing your sheets, the dishwashers, the buffet setup crew — they get nothing. The pooled system exists specifically to compensate the invisible workforce.

Third, managing cash envelopes for multiple crew members across a 7-night sailing is genuinely annoying. You already paid. Don't make more work for yourself.

The one exception: If a specific crew member went genuinely above and beyond — remembered your coffee order every morning, handled a cabin issue gracefully, made your trip — a $10–$20 cash tip at the end of the cruise is always appropriate and always appreciated on top of prepaid gratuities. That's not instead of, that's in addition to.

I’m going on my first cruise and I pre paid gratuities but now I’m hearing shouldn’t do that and tip in cash, advice Photo: MSC Cruises

Practical Tips for First-Time Cruisers on Gratuities

Don't remove your prepaid gratuities. There's almost no scenario where this benefits the crew as a whole. Guest services will let you do it, but you're essentially asking to opt out of paying service workers.

Bring some small cash for personal above-and-beyond moments. $40–$60 in $10 and $20 bills for a 7-night cruise covers any standout crew members without overthinking it.

Watch for gratuities on top of gratuities. Every drink, spa service, specialty restaurant meal, and room service order adds an automatic 18–20% service charge on top of the listed price. That's separate from your daily gratuity and non-negotiable. A $13.50 cocktail actually costs you $16–$16.20 after the automatic surcharge.

Specialty dining gratuities: Cover charges at specialty restaurants (typically $23–$125/person) usually include that 18–20% service charge already baked in, but confirm on your line.

If you're on Virgin Voyages, Oceania, Regent, Silversea, Seabourn, Viking, or a handful of other luxury/premium lines — gratuities are included in your fare. You paid nothing extra and owe nothing extra. Cash tips for exceptional service are still welcome but never expected.

Bottom Line

You prepaid gratuities. That was the right call. The crew gets paid, you don't have to think about it again, and you can spend your mental energy on actually enjoying your first cruise. Keep a little cash on hand for standout service moments, and don't let anyone at the pool bar talk you into marching down to guest services to remove them.

Before you sail, use CruiseMutiny to build a full cost breakdown for your trip — drinks, excursions, specialty dining — so the only surprise onboard is how much you love cruising.